Even both the parents are there for kids, they are growing under pressure due to parents don't have time for parenting bcz of their busy time schedules. Parenting is not a choice for female/male. its responsibility and commitment giving better product of ours to the society. Can we live at place where no responsibility, stressful, violent? We are not only individual contributors and also contributing to the area/nation/world directly or indirectly.
As kids growing they need to taste both the parents otherwise its highly impacts to their emotional changes in their day to day life which leads them to grow in pain, hatred and behavioral changes.
We are social animals and needs to be responsible for everything around us and be a part of better society for next generation(our kids only).
Chandra