సహజీవనంపై మీ అభిప్రాయమేమిటి? ఇలాంటి అంశాల్లో ఎలాంటి జాగ్రత్తలు తీసుకోవాలి?

Updated : 18 Nov 2022 14:22 IST

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పాఠకుల కామెంట్స్

Most punishable crime i think so & i believe that if the government can passing the rules & restrictions should be provided for that relationships & taking further civiour punishment,then it should be definitely decreased
Izack lucky
Most of the crime which we see in the news paper are mostly because of this culture with out boundaries. when the people with kids are in such relations, kids suffer the most, sometimes "veellu manushula pasuvula anipisthundi" kshnaika sukhala kosam pillalni champe tallulu tayarayyarante ee navanagarikatha valana kaada?
More chances of getting women issues, more cheaters will be there when proper care is not taken. I suggest for old people not for young who still has to marry. Otherwise If the person is having maturity and capable of handling things they nothing wrong. As life is important than anything else, choose actions in life properly
Marriage is a commitment for lifetime where as living-in is a non committal relationship. Living in is not a new thing and has been present in societies since ages. Only difference now is, it is becoming in spot light because of the people involved are part of more and more educated people and also due to legal implications coming out of this, particularity for the children born out of this relationship. If you carefully observe, living-in seems to be driven by phychalogical difficulties like, a person need to have somebody to lean on, whether it is for sex or some emotional needs and dependency, for a non committal time period as a temporary arrangement. In western societies, this is very common because of various factors like each individual want to be independent financially, societally with no frills, at least for some period of time before getting into committed relationship, yet to want to fulfill their sexual and emotional needs. Living-in will become predominant when society moves to purely material, financial based goals, and where the selfish motives are paramount. Since last 20 years or so, our Indian society started tasting the fruits of materiality by younger university educated generation. Once you are financially independent, there is no need to worry about basic needs, but yet to need to satisfy emotional needs, and at the same time by preserving the wall built around oneself. To satisfy individual emotions you definitely need other being/creature. This is where living-in, LGBTQ+ etc., is coming into picture. It needs lot of maturity in the couple to be prosperous individually, and together, and still have moral conduct and character at same time. All these present in marriage institution with great responsibility towards the the healthy society. A marriage is not only a commitment to each other but towards a healthy society as well. As always no society is perfect, only thing is majority people should preserve the character of society and ignore these exceptions.
Venkata Krishna B
There would be no mutual respect in living relationship becasue there is always a chance to leave the peer if we see other side of the coin. Every person is different and we never get a good match too. So, marriage is secured in our society, so that the partner would aware that he/she has the family support and could try to change his/her beavior. But it is reverse in living relationship, which doesnt have any value. But it is always better to talk/observe a person that you are going to marry which helps you underastnd him/her
I am not encouraging the coliving. Is really coliving required for young couple, who are not married at? Why is this required? If really required, why cant the couple go for marriage? if anything happening during the coliving duration, who will be taking the responsibility? If this type of coliving officially allowing by supreme court, the couple who do not have an idea to living together, its an encouragement to them. the India is a country who respects family culture and our own customs.
Sailajakshidevi Mora
"The Indian Culture respected by whole world whole heartedly" My Answer when all other countries respected our culture, why we need to adopt other foreign countries culture?. If you are true Indian respect our culture, and respect our women and not adopt this type foreign culture.
Alvin Joseph Juturu
Sahajeevanam is good for senior citizens who lost their Wives or husbands. Living together instead of lonely-ness is good if financial matters are not an impediment. Understanding and respecting each other's opinion plays an important role for sahajeevanam. The opinion of adult children before starting this type of life is necessary if the parent is living alone. In the case of children living very far from the living parent, sahajeevanam is helpful in emergency. This type of life is better than living in old-age homes. Sahajeevanam requires good health condition of both partners. This aspect is a must before starting a new life.
Emani Parameswara Rao
Sahajeevanam before marraige not good for both.
As long as it is not kept as a secret it is good. Unfortunately, our mentality is, we want to have a living relationship. But when we get to know our partner had a relationship in the past, we cannot accept it. Unless this mentality changes & and people keep their relation open to the society, living relation is not good.
Ravi Kumar
Just as scinece is a proved knowledge, traditions are time tested, proved procedures of society. They keep on changing from territory to terroitory due to various reasons. Dating and live-in-relations are prevalant in western countries and there also, they are not successful. Women are the sufferers. In India, marriage is a beautiful, time tested, safe and reliable tradition. Sahajeevanam is a cover for irresponsible and unethical practice. My strict and strong vote is for Marriage. Nothing beats marriage, particularly in India.
యం. యస్. వాసు
Knowing each other is ok, but living together may not be advisable. Adjustments in life with each other after wedlock will lead the married life successfully.
Karunakar Rao
In the 21st century, live your life as you wish. Irrespective of culture, tradition, etc. These are all bullshit.
dating or living together is a western culture and may be suitable for them only. But today in india due to importing western culture and due to software jobs revolution this kind of bad and ugly relationships mostly seeing in film personalities is prevailing in our country. In this relation harm is more likely possible than benefits and perticularly females are victims in alomost all breaking relations.Hence for people like indians who folllow traditional customs it is not good at all.
Chenna Kesava Rao
కాలాలు మారినా ఎప్పటికీ మారనివి విలువలు. విలువలు లేని జీవితం మానవాళికి ప్రమాదం.
గొడవర్తి శ్రీనివాస శర్మ
Its ruining our culture. Western countries are adopting our rich culture while we adapt their crappy culture.
Not suitable for Indian society. women are the sufferers.
balaraju kataru
not at all recommended, why because this is not our culture and this leads to failures only (most of the cases). I request parents not agree for this even though your very matured and modern also
ఎవరి అభిప్రాయాలు వారివి. సహజీవనమైనా, ఏ బంధమైనా అర్థం చేసుకోవడం ముఖ్యం
Ulimiri mahalakshmi
ఇదివరకు పిజ్జా, బర్గర్ అంటే తెలియని పిల్లలు ఇప్పుడు అవి లేకుండా ఉండలేకపోతున్నారు. అలానే ఈ లివ్ ఇన్ రిలేషన్‌షిప్‌ కూడా అంతే. దీనివల్ల బంధం అనే పదానికి అర్థం మారిపోతుంది.
సహజీవనం మన సంప్రదాయం కాదు. జరిగిన తరువాత బాధపడే కంటే ఏమీ జరగక ముందే జాగ్రత్త పడటం మేలు.
No problem if both are interested and agree with each other.
rama krishna
That is not a correct.
This is stupid culture and ruining youth personal life and mental piece. It's very attractive to hear / in the beginning days but ruins everything as it progress.
Reddi Prakash
Pelli la kante, sahajeevanam better.. Evvariki nachinatlu vallu Brathakochu happy ga.... Less Responsibilities, N More Happiness
అంతమంచిది కాదనేది నా అభిప్రాయం. స్వేచ్ఛ, స్వాతంత్ర్యాలు ఉన్నాయనే కోణంలో సంస్కృతికి, సంప్రదాయానికి భిన్నంగా అన్ని వేళలా ప్రయాణించలేం. యువతీ, యువకులలో పెరుగుతున్న ఆధునిక పోకడలతో.. ఉమ్మడి కుటుంబాల విచ్ఛిన్నంతో.. మారుతున్న కాలంతో... విదేశీ సంస్కృతిలో మనం కూడా కొట్టుకుపోతున్నాం. కానీ, ఇది పెడధోరణే. దీన్ని ప్రోత్సహించకూడదు.
గట్టిమి సతీశ్ కుమార్
I donot encourage
పెళ్లి కాకుండా ఒక స్త్రీ, ఒక పురుషుడు కలిసి జీవించడం (సహజీవనం) తప్పు. ఈ విషయంలో మరో ఆలోచనకు తావు లేదు. ఒకవేళ ఇద్దరూ ఇష్టపడున్నట్లయితే పెళ్లి చేసుకుంటే అందరికీ అంతకుమించిన ఆనందం మరొకటి లేదు. సమాజ కట్టుబాట్లను గౌరవించడమంత సుఖం మరొకటి లేదు. నిజానికి వాటిని కట్టుబాట్లు అనుకునేకంటే సమాజ సంక్షేమానికి మార్గాలు అనుకుంటే మరింత ఆనందంగా అనుసరించగలుగుతాం.
Laxmi Kantarao
Sahajeevanam Correct kadhu But Thappadhu anukunnapudu friends & Reletives vachinapudu Okkariki okkaru support chesukoni one Or Two Days Hostel lo Vundelaga Plan Chesukovali Prathi Okka Work Kalisi Chesukovali Work Pressure vunnapudu bayataki veldam adi edi ani Partner visiginchakudadhu Weekly days lo Friends to bayataki velladaniki Partner ki permission evvandi Cooking & Clothes Cleaning eddaru Kalisi support chesukovali
ఇది మన సంస్కృతి కాదు. ఒకవేళ సహజీవనం చేయాలనుకుంటే వారి మధ్య శారీరక సంబంధం ఉండకూడదనేది నా అభిప్రాయం.
In Western culture, live-in relationship is quiet common whereas countries like India follow traditional Values and live-in relationships are not encouraged. Although it depends on Individual Opinion whether to follow or not to follow cultures. From my Standpoint, being in live-in relationship after getting proper maturity will be a good thing to involve in. Otherwise its better not to involve any.... From other terms ,Parents being restrictive from teenage is good thing and raising them by letting them know value of relationships is one of the best things parents can cultivate. The reason for parents being restrictive in teenage is for our good terms to focus/spend time on important things than love/relationships otherwise kids/adults thoughts will be occupied with relationships when we have far more important topics/knowledge one can attain through out their adulthood tenure and they do have room for standing out in their career lives, they have chance to earn which helps them attain good name in society as earning money yields earning respect as a byproduct too and they have had chance to get rewarding benefits based on their work/professionalism. Hence i believe live in relationships must be encouraged only when adults have utmost maturity which must lead to marriage despite having ups & downs and ability to change for each other in that relationship. Otherwise it must not be encouraged from my view point. Thankyou!
Live in relationships are totally wrong. We should take any decision in the presence of our parents. In the world we can trust our parents unanimously. Dont trust people easily. NO one is really trustworthy. Dont go any relationships with other than your parents.
R Malliswari
ఇది మన దేశ సంస్కృతి కాదు. తల్లిదండ్రులు తమ పిల్లలకు చిన్నప్పటి నుంచి క్రమశిక్షణతో పెంచాలి. మానవ సంబంధాలు ఎలా ఉంటాయో చెప్పాలి. ధైర్యంగా ఎలా ఉండాలి? ఎలాంటి పరిస్థితులనైనా ఎదుర్కొనేలా పెంచాలి. అలాగే ఆడవారు కూడా బేలగా వుండకూడదు. ఎవరికీ అతి చనువు ఇవ్వకూడదు. మగవారు తోడేలు లాంటి వారు. అవకాశం కోసం ఎదురు చూస్తుంటారు అని తెలుసుకోవాలి. ఏ అమ్మాయికి శ్రద్ధ గారు లాంటి పరిస్థితి రాకూడదు. సర్వే జనా సుఖినోభవంతు.
There are pros and cons in marrage system and live in relationship. We can known each other in live in relationship. If we donot like each other, we cannot get divorce easily in marriage system but we can separate and find new relationship in live in relationship. I will support live in relationship as we are all living in 21 st century. We have to adopt new methods and relationships without tarditioanal process. Old is gold but new is very gold.
Sampat Kumar Ratna

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